I have this habit of always expect others to think the same like I do. Later did I realize that it is always not. I got upset and disappointed when things don't turn up well, and then one of my friend reminded me : "You can't expect people to think like the way you do!" It was this statement at that moment which wakes me up, and I learnt!
I'm this type of person who talk-a-lot and think-a-lot. Well, I think we should be mature enough in handling some situation, daily livings or even at work. Just that I overlook the fact that others might have their own thinking too. For example, at work I would expect my colleague to be responsible on the given task. When he/she don't, I would say : Why is he/she like that? Can't they be more responsible? Then my heart will whisper - no one is perfect, not even myself! How important it is and I'm grateful that I learned this lesson fast!
Expectation should be set for myself but not others.
- I choose Love -
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